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"When our identity both liberates and endangers us, we must empower ourselves as individuals, join together with others to normalize and celebrate our identity, and take collective action to change the way we are treated in society."
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As an aromantic, bi/pansexual non-binary woman and solo polyamorous Relationship Anarchist, I've been exploring my own identity for most of my life. Whether you have been out for decades, or are just now questioning and exploring your identity, it is my commitment to provide a safe and compassionate environment for all the work required to queer our relationships and follow a non-normative path through the world.
Skills for Change Coaching offers a power-informed approach to analyzing transactions along the intersections of our embodied state (mood, energy, emotions, internalized oppression, ego-state, survival responses, trauma, body), our actions and the actions of others (observable facts including movement, nonverbal and verbal communication, and even non-action and how power affects these actions in terms of hierarchy, cooperation and hybrids of both), and our context (historic, social, cultural, community, ecosystem & weather, oppression & privilege.)
By understanding what happened in a particular transaction, we can both explore our motivations, instincts and skills, as well as imagine how things would turn out if they went well.
It's my commitment to stay connected with radical queer culture and community and to bring cultural and identity-sensitive, inclusive practices to my classes and certification programs. If you need me to learn about your identity to support you, I am open to your guidance and I will also do my own research.
I am committed to fighting for collective liberation, and all community members' rights to freedom, identity and inclusion.